In any fertility center a battery test of blood along with other basic tests on the prospective egg donor in order to screen out any negative health condition are taken yet before they are accepted as potential donors. It should also be mentioned that specific blood type of the egg donor is not important unless the future parents don't want to tell their child that he or she is the product of an egg donation. Since infertility knows no boundaries, egg donors can come from a variety of ethnic and racial backgrounds.
It is also extremely important to evaluate the psychological state of health of any woman, who has a wish to become an egg donor. Any prospective egg donor is to undergo counseling sessions. And it is even true to women, who are acquainted with the couple of future intended parents.
Though most potential egg donors, especially women, who wish to be anonymous are attracted by the money sum, which they will have for their time and service, financial compensation is not the only motivation for women, who decide to donate their eggs for a couple of infertile people. There are altruistic minded women, who donate their eggs because they know of friends or family members who were not able to conceive a child on their own. Other women simply consider it something, they should do in order to help someone; these women most likely have their own child / children. There are even women, who consider that they do not want to have and raise children of their own; however they think that egg donation is a kind of a way to provide for the continuation of their genetic line.
Any woman, who wants to become an egg donor, is to have an active and on – going relationship, she is either to be married or at least to have a boyfriend, and this woman is to be sure, that this relationship is stable. Moreover, the husband or boyfriend is also to be aware of what his wife or girlfriend is doing and he is not to mind it. However, not necessarily all clinics and surrogacy agencies demand any perspective egg donors to be in an on – going relationship.
Many couples of intended parents want eggs from egg donors with “attractive features”, however, what is important for some people comes out to be not necessarily to other. All women, who have conceivable eye color, skin tone, hair texture, nose, height, weight and size are possible candidates for their egg donation. And it is easy to explain that nearly every couple of intended parents chooses a woman, with feature and characteristics similar to those of the wife.
For some intended parents the educational level of their egg donor also plays an important role. This is why many clinics, fertility centers and surrogacy agencies prefer women with college education, or those, who at least have some kind of advanced training beyond the high school boundaries. Any woman, who wants to become an egg donor is to understand all the procedures, which are involved in the egg stimulation and retrieval. Moreover it is important that the woman would not be squeamish about all these procedures.
In addition in most agencies the issue of the donor’s feelings and desires, concerning if she would allow any contact with the child, when he or she becomes 18 and in case if this child expresses a desire to meet his or her genetic mother. This is why is it important to decide if a woman allow or want to have any contact with the child in the future yet before she agrees to become an egg donor. Finally, those women, who are really excited about the possibility of helping an infertile couple to have a long waiting child, usually make the best egg donors. There is no greater gift than donating one's eggs, which in turn enables the couple to become a family. It is truly the "gift that keeps on giving".
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