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| Put High Standards | Set your standards high is the best thing you can do at first to reach a successful surrogacy arrangement. If you are looking for a match with the help of an agency, you understand that everyone involved has met the physical and psychological standards that the agency has adduced. You shouldn’t reduce your requirements even if you are pursuing an independent arrangement. Any surrogacy, in spite of the way it had been arranged, should involve legal, health and psychological experts to show the right way through the process for both sides.
Psychological
Every party involved in the process should meet a psychologist or consultant who has experience in making surrogacy arrangements before signing the contract to help them make sure that they are ready and can manage the stress caused by the whole surrogacy process. This is necessary to protect the intended couples as well as the surrogate mothers with their partners. Fortunately, it will make everyone sure that the ideal match is found.
Your consultant may also help you as a mediator in the conflicts that may appear during the process of surrogacy, this will help the parties avoid any kind of collision. Also, if a surrogate mother feels nervous tension during her pregnancy the consultant may serve her as psychological support.
Health
The intended couple and the surrogate mother with her partner should undergo medical screening (including HIV tests) before they sign the contract and especially before starting the medical therapy. Medical expert should also carefully test the surrogate to define her capability to get pregnant successfully and bear the fetus to term.
Legal
Every party should also consult a legal representative able to explicate details of the contract to them and help them solve any problems concerning the contract. A third party that consists of legal consultants, should deal with all financial operations such as paying out the fees to the surrogate and distribute them as it is stated in the contract. This will let the intended parents and the surrogate mother concentrate on their personal problems, physical and psychological points of their relations and not to worry about money.
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