It is not easy to decide whether surrogacy is for you, as there are so many issues, you are to take into consideration, before you sign up an arrangement with the agency, or with a surrogate mother, you have found by yourself. The questions below will help you to make this decision, answer all of them, and then you will be able to find out if surrogacy is exactly what you want, or if you should consider some other options. So, you should not get worried, think each question over, do not get hurry and there is no need to answer all the questions right away, as you have plenty of time to find the answer, which would fit you the most, and, go ahead!
1. Are you ready to become parents?
2. Have you taken all possible options of having a baby into consideration?
3. Have you got enough or information about the surrogacy process?
4. Have you paid enough attention to all the other options available?
5. Do you as well and your partner want to pursue the surrogacy equally, or can it be possible that one of two of you is going along with the idea of becoming intended parents only to please the second partner?
6. In what way may the a surrogate arrangement effect your family, marital, work and social relationships?
7. How may your feeling about your being unable to have your own babies affect the surrogacy journey?
8. Would you feel comfortable, while sharing the news about the surrogacy process with other people?
9. What, how and when will you tell other people about some other woman expecting a baby for you?
10. Do you think that you may be criticized, and what would you feel if you will be?
11. How are you going to defend your choice to people, opposed to your decision, and will you be able to do it?
12. Will you always be honest and open with other people, while telling where you got your baby from?
13. What will you tell your baby, when he or she gets older?
14. Is it possible that the fact that some other woman delivered the child for you, might affect your relationships with your future son or daughter?
15. What kind of support do you need, do you have it?
16. What if you knew, that the baby will be born with some kind of anomaly?
17. What will you do, if a woman, who is going to become a surrogate mother and will be caring your future baby, has many medical complications or health problems during the pregnancy period?
18. What kind of relationship would you like to have between you and your family and a woman, who will be a surrogate mother, and her family after she delivers a baby for you?
19. What kind of relationship would you like your future child to have with the surrogate mother of him or her?
20. What qualities, do you think a woman, who will be a surrogate mother for your baby, should possess?
21. What should take place in the surrogacy arrangement?
22. What should never take place in the surrogacy arrangement?
23. What are your fears about the surrogacy process itself? Will you be able to sooth yourself?
24. Is it possible that you might be jealous?
25. Is it possible that you may feel threatened by a woman, who is carrying a baby for you?
26. Do you have enough patience, for the surrogacy arrangement?
27. Is it much important to have a baby, biologically and genetically linked to you?
28. What type of surrogacy would you prefer: Gestational Surrogacy or Traditional Surrogacy, and why?
29. How much time, money and nerves are you able to put in the surrogacy arrangement?
30. If you need to borrow money, is there a place, you where you can apply to?
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