There is one general question to nearly every surrogate mother: “What is the reason of your becoming a surrogate mother?” A lot of answers to this question exist. Some of surrogates consider that they felt somewhat like a call, when there was someone close to them, who was suffering all the pain of one  miscarriage after another one, loss of a baby still growing in the womb, or the whole number of reasons that makes a woman unable to have children of her own. Others met a woman, who was a surrogate mother when there were at some definite point of their life and they saw this beautiful and necessary thing, she was doing. These women decided to do the same. There is one more group of women, who is surprising because they made a decision to become surrogate mothers after they had read some article, in which surrogacy was totally trashed or had watched some movie, that could give them many nightmares. These women may consider surrogacy not being such a bad thing, and even in case if that very surrogate mother was, they are the ones, who could do it much better. Anyway, whenever surrogacy related articles or news appear in the newspaper, no matter whether it would be an agenda filled, front pate article, or a sappy story in the Life section, Surrogate Mothers Online always provides a constantly increasing amount of classified ads from any geographical location. The reasons of choosing to become surrogate mothers differ from woman to woman, therefore, they all have one dream, common for all of them – they all wish to see the look on the intended parents’ face, when their dream of having a baby gets true. It is all about filling empty arms.
There is another common thing, related to surrogate mothers – it is that they love to share the extraordinary thing they do. Almost all reporters as well as producers are crazy about taking advantage of this trait of the surrogate mothers. However, in case if you are an experienced surrogate, or a potential surrogate mother, you should never fall into this trap of them, simply because they may accuse you of making babies with the aim to get money and they will also try to make you out to be among the bottom feeders of society. Of no doubt, that telling the world how truly awesome surrogacy becomes, is the dream of nearly surrogate mother, however, it is a dream of every journalist to make surrogacy the front page of his or her newspaper or magazine. Therefore, none of these newspapers or magazines would put sugar – filled sweetness neither on the front page, nor even below the fold.
That is why the best thing for you, in case if a reporter tries to contact you is to decline politely and give no other information. However, if these 15 minutes of fame is the only thing you wish to have, then you should check out other things, which cay possibly be written by that reporter. You can do it by visiting their website and doing a search on the author or on surrogacy. In case if the person, who wants to contact you, is a television producer, think over what that show is about. You should keep in mind, that any good and experienced journalist, whether the information will be in print or on screen shows the good as well as the bad, however, these days it is all about the money. Of no doubt, these reporters do want to make a buck of you. Remember, any drama and as well as negativity boosts their ratings, which, in its turn, lines their pocket books. Remember, that the majority of journalists do not care at all about what it can possibly cost you, as long as they get their check. That is why in case if you do not want to be made a mockery of, you should better simply say them no.
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