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| Surrogates Motivation | Very often money becomes an important motive to many surrogates but usually it is not the main reason.
It is noticed that they’ve got a range emotional motives. Frequently these are the wish to help other families have children, to enhance their identity and need for self-actualization. For these women it will be a principally female experience related to motherhood and main female biological function.
These women place a great value on their family life and particularly on their children and desire to share the experiences of children’s love and gratification their children offer them with other women who are unfortunately unable to achieve such things on their own. Such desires formed a whole category of motivation, namely compassion to women who suffer when they face their infertility and the incentive to generate parenthood for other people.
 A great experience shows that these women are just as normal as everyone else, they are actually ordinary and their personalities are average. Their psychological needs can sometimes be caused by subconscious guilt and such interior conflicts and necessities often stimulate ordinary life choices, but if the psychologists reveal that, such woman will not become a surrogate as such feelings are unacceptable for future surrogates. Because of such emotionally-based motives a lot of applicants are being rejected.
Psychologists say that in choosing the surrogates a great discrimination because of poor motives, conditions of their life is necessary.
Many women also feel that surrogacy for them would be a positive and useful emotional experience. They get full satisfaction from understanding that the have made someone’s life happier.
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